How many relationships have you had? What is the reason for the break up? I didn't ask you these two questions to prick your heart. But I hope we can understand that if we want to achieve a correct outcome in whatever love or one night meet up that you are seeking, we not only need skills and luck, but also need to find the right person to work on.
I've heard so many people had experience like this, falling in love with the wrong person and feeling like my life is a mess. Today, I will talk to you about how to quickly determine whether this is the right one to hook up with or to date on adult apps. If a girl has the following three signs, I’ll suggest you to back off.
First, her private life is chaos. In a word, past or present, her relationship experience is high frequency, low quality, and often entangled with others. Of course, asking for information about a woman's life before getting to know her very well can be considered impolite. So, you might as well ask the friends around you to help, or search her social profile to find out.
If you're dealing with someone whose private life is chaotic, you'll probably get some negative ends. For example, she posts photos of herself hanging out at high-energy social spots like bars and nightclubs. Of course, people like her would be a suitable choice for one night hook up, but not so good for serious relationship or to say, marriage material.
Flirting with a lot of guys in comments. Or maybe she broke someone's heart. Even betrayed their feelings and so on. Girls who have chaotic private lives often have lots of friends of the opposite sex around them, which is hard for some of us to accept. Even if a woman says "Don't worry, he and I are just friends" or "I can make a change for you and I'll pay attention to it later", the likelihood of actual change is very small.
So, if you find it hard to accept that your partner has too many friends of the opposite sex, don't try to pursue them in the first place. This is the top one sign that shows this girl might not be a tinder hookup. Before you getting into anything serious, remember to check out her social media account. If you find she’s having lots of friends of the opposite gender, then you might as well change your intention. Maybe start with a one night hook up and move from there? Who says hook up partner cannot be your future significant other? Just try it out.